A crush will always be a crush unless you tell them how you feel. If you’re too shy to tell her that you love her in person, you might want to write her a note. Keep it short, simple, and at the point. Explain your emotions, but don’t include too many garish details. Be prepared for the reaction of the person you love, and remember that even if your crush doesn’t return the favor, you will have been brave enough to get your feelings out of your chest, and that’s something you do.
Create your message
Keep it short and straightforward. Tell your crush that you love him and that you would like to spend time with him. Don’t ramble, repeat, or boast about how great your crush is or how you constantly think about them. Your crush feels uncomfortable.
Tell your lover that you love him.
Even though it might sound scary, it’s best to be blunt with it. Be honest and tell your crush that you love them. Avoid exposing your crush that you’re thinking about it 24/7. After all, you don’t want to scare your crush!
For example, write: “I like you. Do you want to go out someday?
Don’t write, “I can’t help but think about you, and I dream about you every night. I love you so much.”
Explain to them a few reasons why you like them.
Think about why you love the person you love and what attracts you to them. Are they friendly or funny? Am I a great dancer or an exceptional guitarist? Include a specific reason or two why your crush caught your eye.
For example, write: “I admire the way you defend other children” or “I like that you work very hard in chemistry.”
Avoid writing things like “You are so popular.” These aren’t good reasons to love someone, and they don’t say anything about the personality of the person you love. If you mention all these things in your love letter your crush might think that you are just behind their fame or success. This will make them feel bad and then there are chances that they might reject your feelings or emotions. So try not to be materialistic whether you mean it or not.
It can be scary to share your emotions with someone else. However, it would help if you didn’t take it easy or assume that your crush doesn’t share your feelings. Don’t let the person you love know that you are afraid of their rejection, but instead show them confidence in you.
Don’t write anything like, “I know you’ll never love me back, but I just had to tell you that I always think of you!”
Instead, write, “I would like to know you better.” Do you want to go out next weekend?
Avoid sharing anything you don’t wish others to know.
Your crush might show the note to their friends, which is another reason you want to keep it concise and straightforward. You don’t have to be embarrassed to tell someone you love them. But, if you add too many personal details, you might feel uncomfortable if others read out your note.
Don’t say anything like, “You’re my first crush, and I always think of you, and I want you to be my first.”
Make it neat and straight.
While you don’t need to buy fancy stationery or take calligraphy lessons, you should use your best handwriting so that the person you love can easily read your post. If you deleted a bunch of lines in your memo, rewrite it.
Avoid adding a lot of hearts or kisses to the note. Save them for the messages you write when you’re already dating someone!
Addresses the note.
You can fold your note into a sophisticated configuration or put it in a sealed envelope. Make sure to put your crush’s name on the outside of the message, so there’s no doubt who it is. Also, include the initial or first name of more than one person in your school with the same last name.
For example, write “To Marissa E.”
Deliver it to your crush
You can give the card to someone you like or leave it in their locker. You can also ask a friend to give the card to the person you love, but make sure they tell you it’s yours to avoid confusion. It’s an excellent option to wait until lunchtime or after school to deliver your ticket so that neither you nor your loved one gets in trouble during class.
You may want to wait until the person you love is alone to hand over the note so that they can read it privately.
You can also email the note to anyone you want. But you won’t notice if or when your crush reads the letter, and they might not take a digital message like a handwritten note as seriously.
Ask the person you like to respond to. You can add a line to the note by asking your loved one to answer or asking them to share their response with you when you deliver the letter in person. For example, you could say, “I’ll go out if you want to talk after reading this.”
If you haven’t heard from your crush within days of the graduation, you can follow along. Just ask, “Hey, did you read my note? When you see it in person.
Prepare for his reaction.
Your crush loves you too, and may your post be the start of a beautiful relationship. However, this may not always be the situation, so you should be prepared to be rejected. Know that the person you love has made your decision, and don’t try to change it.
It doesn’t depend if you are sad or disappointed. Give yourself time to come to terms with the situation, then let go of the idea of dating the person you love and move on.